No.1 Professional Asian Matchmaker

Connecting exceptional Asian women with accomplished gentlemen who are global-mindedand particularly passionate about Asian culture

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Elite Asian Matchmaker: Best Asian Matchmaker in San Fransisco Bay Area of 2025

Elite Asian Matchmaker: Best Asian Matchmaker in Los Angeles of 2025

Elite Asian Matchmaker: Best Asian Matchmaker in New York of 2025

Elite Asian Matchmaker is an award-winning boutique matchmaking agency specializing in introducing accomplished singles to exceptional Asian partners across the United States and internationally. Since 2016, we've helped successful professionals build meaningful, lasting relationships through a private, personalized, and highly curated matchmaking experience.

Founder, CEO, VIP Matchmaker, Xiaoli Mei

I am Xiaoli Mei, I am a certified Professional Matchmaker and also a certified Relationship Coach with a background in psychology. I’ve helped a lot of singles find happiness in love. But before all that… I was probably just like you. I had a failed marriage and a lot of botched dating experiences.

While working two jobs and raising my two young children as a single mom, in the San Francisco Bay Area, I was determined to crack the “Happiness Code”. I KNEW there had to be a way to balance a successful career AND a fulfilling relationship.

In fact, I spent over 10 years searching and learning before I finally discovered the breakthrough in love and in relationships.

Today, because of this breakthrough, I’m living with the love of my life…my forever man…my husband Jim! What started as a “selfish” attempt to find the love of my life, turned out to become a personal mission and passion to help other singles looking for their own version of happily ever after…

What I know for sure: you did not find my website here by accident. I know you are searching for love. You may feel exhausted and frustrated about online dating or you might have had a hard time meeting quality people in your social circle, or you’re very particular about what you are looking for.

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Love stories

Real connections, meaningful beginnings, and beautiful new chapters.

Cece & Drew

Drew came to Elite Asian Matchmaker after the end of a nearly 30-year relationship. Feeling lonely and discouraged by dating apps, he was ready to find a meaningful connection and a true life partner. We introduced him to Cece, and she turned out to be exactly the person he had been hoping to find. Their connection grew into love, and a little over a year after their first date, they were married. Drew and Cece recently welcomed their first baby boy! From starting over to marriage and now a beautiful new family, their story is a wonderful reminder that it’s never too late to find love and begin a new chapter.

Angela & Eric

Angela came to us feeling frustrated about dating. She wasn’t looking for endless dates, she was ready to find the right partner, build a meaningful relationship, and start a family. During a business trip to the San Francisco Bay Area, we introduced her to Eric. Now, 18 months after that first date, Angela and Eric are engaged and planning their future together. Sometimes, the right person isn’t in your city. When two people are truly right for each other, distance is simply something to overcome.

Daisy & Dave

Dave is a successful entrepreneur, handsome, accomplished, and successful. He wanted us to carefully vet potential matches based on his specific criteria, values, and long-term goals. We introduced him to Daisy. Their first date turned into a 4-hour conversation, and as they say, the rest is history. They later married in beautiful Switzerland, and today they are happily together with their adorable daughter.

Ingrid & Rob

Ingrid and Rob’s story is a beautiful international romance. Ingrid is a model who has lived a truly global lifestyle across Asia, Canada, and the U.S. Rob is a tall, handsome tech founder who came to us looking for the right partner after some bad dating experiences, and Ingrid was his very first match. Their first date took place in romantic Bali. One year later, they are buying a home in California, ready for the next chapter of their beautiful love story. Sometimes, it only takes one introduction to find your person.