Matchmaking That Gets You A Committed Relationship (Finally!)

You finally landed the right place to change your love story because we believe there is someone out there for everyone!

Elite Asian Matchmaker specializes in helping successful business leaders, C-level suites, investors, celebrities and well-established professionals who are particularly interested in Asian cultures and wish to find an Asian life partner.

Tell us the criteria for your ideal partner, your vision for love, and we will make it happen! As matchmakers, we understand your pain and your desire. We value your time, reputation, personal privacy and your ROI.

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You’re ready to have love in your life.

You want to date sophisticated, well-educated, and established high caliber singles, without having to rely on overwhelming dating apps or endless networking events and mixers…

You have all the success in your business and career, but are missing one piece in life – that special someone to share it with.

It’s time to get expert help and outsource this part of your life so that you can experience success in your relationships, too.

You want to…

Did you know…

Working with a matchmaker makes you more likely to meet high-quality and like-minded singles and get a loving, long-term, committed relationship than going alone with online dating apps or hoping to meet someone organically.


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With matchmaking services, you are more likely to find the right person that fits your wants and needs. There’s also the certainty that those you meet through matchmaking services aren’t going to waste your time in the same way that the random folk on dating apps do.

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The ROI of Matchmaking:
An Investment in Love

Investing in love, though it may initially appear unconventional from a financial perspective, is just the same as working with a financial advisor, attorney, or even a personal trainer. Just as in finance, where well-informed decisions can yield substantial returns, approaching matters of the heart with a strategic mindset can lead to remarkable outcomes.


In fact, according to a survey conducted by the National Bureau of Economic Research, individuals in fulfilling, loving relationships tend to report higher levels of overall life satisfaction, with a remarkable 82% of respondents attributing their happiness to a successful partnership. This correlation suggests that love can indeed be viewed as an investment with multifaceted returns.

The Love Experts

Professional matchmakers have mastered the fine art of identifying authentic connections. For example, our Matchmakers have a combined 150 years of experience in finding love. Studies show that individuals who enlist the services of professional matchmakers are two times more likely to establish a lasting and meaningful connection than those who rely solely on chance encounters and online dating apps. These matchmaking experts play a pivotal role in increasing the probability of forming long lasting connections.

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Hi, I’m Xiaoli

I am an Elite Asian matchmaker, also a celebrity matchmaker with a deep psychology background. I’ve helped hundreds of singles find happiness in love. But before all that… I was probably just like you. I had a failed marriage and a lot of botched dating experiences.


What started as a “selfish” attempt to find the love of my life, turned out to become a personal mission and passion to help other singles looking for their own version of happily ever after…


What I know for sure: you did not find me by accident. I know you are searching for love. You may feel exhausted and frustrated about online dating or you might have had a hard time meeting quality people in your social circle, or you’re very particular about what you are looking for.


Elite Asian Matchmaker

is a bespoke, exclusive matchmaking agency located in the heart of the San Francisco Bay Area. We specialize in serving the needs of clients from California to Washington D.C., the New York/New Jersey metropolitan areas and across the US in major metropolitan areas, even globally wherever singles are looking to find love with an extraordinary Asian partner.


Elite Asian Matchmakers has helped globally-minded singles who are passionate about Asian culture find love since 2014. This shared mindset and cultural connection brings a unique international perspective to the matchmaking process. The global perspective adds diversity and richness to the work.

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Here’s How Our Elite Asian Matchmaking Process Works

Your First Step is to Contact Us: Reach out to us through our inquiry form. Express your interest in becoming a VIP member or Client, and our team will guide you through the next steps.

Initial Consultation: During our initial consultation, we’ll get to know you on a deep level—understanding your preferences, values, and lifestyle. We’ll outline our matchmaking process and address any questions or concerns you may have about our process.

Profile Creation: We’ll create a comprehensive profile that highlights your unique qualities, preferences, and what you’re looking for in a partner. This profile serves as the foundation for our matchmaking efforts, guiding us in selecting compatible matches that align with your criteria.

Personalized Matchmaking: Then we’ll create a personalized matchmaking plan for you. This includes identifying compatible matches among our exclusive network of exceptional Asian women and eligible single gentlemen. By gaining insight into what truly matters to you, we can handpick matches that align with your criteria.

Match Selection: We have an extensive network, database, and proprietary matchmaking algorithms, to help us carefully select potential matches. Our goal is to introduce you to high-quality individuals who meet your criteria and share your relationship aspirations.

Introduction and Feedback: Once we’ve identified compatible matches, we’ll facilitate introductions between you. After each introduction, we’ll gather feedback from both parties to assess compatibility and refine our matchmaking approach as needed.

Membership Options: During the consultation, we’ll discuss membership options tailored to your specific needs. VIP membership with Elite Asian Matchmaker comes with exclusive benefits, ensuring a premium matchmaking experience designed for high-level professionals.

Discretion and Confidentiality: Privacy is paramount, especially for individuals with high-profile careers or public personas. We understand the need for discretion and confidentiality in your search for love, which is why we prioritize privacy throughout the matchmaking process.

Targeted and Offline Strategy: Through our extensive network of successful professionals and culturally-minded individuals, we have access to a diverse pool of potential matches. This approach is distinct from mainstream social dating sites.

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Our targeted and offline strategy allows us to introduce you to compatible singles who meet your criteria and share your relationship aspirations.

  • Dating and Relationship Coaching: Elite Asian Matchmaker goes beyond introductions. We offer guidance, support, and educational resources to help you navigate the various aspects of dating and relationships.
  • Continued Support: You will have our commitment and ongoing support and assistance throughout your relationship journey. We offer guidance, advice, and resources to help you nurture and grow throughout the relationship journey.
Whether you’re seeking a partner who shares your cultural heritage, values, or life goals, Elite Asian Matchmaker is here to help you find that special someone who complements and enriches your life. Our comprehensive matchmaking process is tailored to each individual client, ensuring that you receive personalized attention and support throughout your relationship journey.

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How Professional Matchmaking With Elite Asian Matchmakers Can Help You Date Asian Women

Dating apps can be fun for a night out, but they are not the right place for singles seeking a fulfilling relationship. With matchmaking, you only have a few things to do:
  • Step One: First, you’ll need to identify your ideal partner’s qualities. These qualities are essential for matchmakers to successfully match you with the right person.
  • Step Two: Then, you can relax waiting for your matchmaker to bring the potential partners to you. All you have to do is meet your match for your first date and beyond!
  • Step Three: Give us your date feedback!
We offer personalized relationship coaching to give you confidence, clarity, and support every step of the way.

We’re a good fit if…

Frequently Asked Questions

Personalized Matchmaking: We understand that you’re not just looking for a date, you’re searching for someone who truly understands and complements you. Our experienced matchmakers take the time to get to know you on a deep level, learning about your personality, preferences, and what you’re looking for in a partner. By understanding your unique characteristics and desires, we can carefully curate matches that are compatible with you on multiple levels.


Cultural Compatibility: As experts in Asian matchmaking, we appreciate the importance of cultural compatibility in relationships. Whether you’re seeking someone who shares your cultural background or someone who appreciates and respects Asian culture, we specialize in connecting individuals who understand and embrace each other’s cultural heritage.


Discreet Approach: Recognizing the sensitive nature of matchmaking, especially for clients with executive status, we maintain a discreet and confidential approach throughout the process. This includes avoiding the use of mainstream social dating sites.


Expert Guidance: Finding love can be a journey filled with challenges and uncertainties. That’s why we offer guidance and support every step of the way. From providing dating advice to offering relationship coaching, our team is dedicated to helping you navigate the complexities of modern dating and build a strong, fulfilling relationship.


Exclusive Network: Our extensive network of successful professionals and culturally-minded individuals provides access to a diverse pool of potential matches. We leverage our connections and expertise to introduce you to high-quality singles who meet your criteria and share your relationship aspirations.


If you’re unsure whether hiring a matchmaker is the right choice for you, consider scheduling a consultation with Elite Asian Matchmaker to learn more about our process, services, and how they can assist you in your search for love. This can help you make an informed decision based on your unique circumstances and goals.

Whether or not it’s worth getting a matchmaker ultimately depends on your individual circumstances, preferences, and relationship goals. However, for many individuals, working with a matchmaker can be a highly rewarding and worthwhile investment in their search for love. Here are some factors to consider when determining if hiring a matchmaker is worth it for you:


Time Constraints: While we can’t make any promises regarding a timeline, USUALLY within six months to a year, Elite Asian Matchmakers can find you a match for an exclusive relationship. If you lead a busy lifestyle with limited time for socializing or dating, a matchmaker can save you valuable time by handling the time-consuming aspects of the matchmaking process, such as screening potential matches and arranging introductions.


Quality of Matches: Matchmakers have access to exclusive networks and databases of high-quality singles, increasing the likelihood of finding compatible matches who meet your criteria and are genuinely interested in establishing a meaningful connection.


Expertise and Guidance: Matchmakers offer expert guidance, feedback, and support throughout the matchmaking process, providing valuable insights and advice to help you navigate the complexities of dating and relationships with confidence and ease.


Personalized Attention: Matchmakers provide personalized attention and tailored matchmaking services based on your individual preferences, lifestyle, and relationship goals, ensuring that the matches they recommend are compatible with your personality and values.


Privacy and Discretion: Matchmakers prioritize discretion and privacy, handling your personal information with the utmost confidentiality and ensuring that your privacy is protected throughout the matchmaking journey, which can be especially important for individuals with high-profile careers or public personas.


Increased Confidence: Knowing that you have a professional advocate who is actively working on your behalf can boost your confidence and self-assurance in the dating arena, making it easier to approach dating with a positive mindset and open heart.


Ultimately, the decision to hire a matchmaker is a personal one that depends on your individual preferences, priorities, and budget. It’s important to carefully consider your own needs and goals, as well as the potential benefits of working with a matchmaker, before making a decision.

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Ready to work together?

Your first step is to fill out the inquiry form linked below, and we will guide you through your next steps from there. We cannot wait to receive your application and help you find lasting love!