Hope you had great time off for the holiday. Holiday is a great time to relax, reflect and recharge. However, for some singles, this is also a difficult time. It triggers some deep feelings of sadness and anxiety. If you are not in the happy relationship you dreamed of, it’s very easy to feel sad, disappointed and discouraged.
But, it IS possible to transform these feelings by turning them into committed focus and determination. You may ask, how can you take action now to ensure by this time next year you are in the committed relationship you desire, and experiencing a wonderful time with someone special?
Here are 3 steps I want to share with you to get you on your way. Take time today to create space in your life and in your heart to intentionally attract love into your life:
Step 1 – Affirm who you are and your accomplishments
The secret to finding your love FAST is to appreciate who you are and what you already have, while still having the desire for even more of the good things in life.
You can’t feel miserable about yourself, but still expect your true love just to knock on your door.
The first step is to affirm the POSITIVE things you have accomplished last year. Pick the things about yourself you love & admire, feel proud of yourself about all the things you have done, and honor your own values. Tell yourself that you deserve a great happy relationship.
Step 2 – Release any negative thoughts & emotions
Release any negative thoughts & emotions that don’t serve you. All of the pain, dissatisfaction, and disempowering thoughts created your false reality. Those very same thoughts keep you stuck, stop you, and prevent you from moving forward to a happy loving relationship.
The law of beliefs is “No two objects can occupy the same space at the same time”. When you hold those negative thoughts & emotions, your positive experience will not show up. Simply stated, they cannot exist at the same time. Therefore, you must learn how to release negative thoughts and beliefs in order to make room for the positive experience you want to create.
Step 3 – Break the pattern
Once you release your negative thoughts & emotions, there is now space for you to create a new experience. But how would you do it? What actions would you take?
In order to create a new experience, you need to break your old way of doing things. Because those old ways kept you stuck in the past and in the negative environment.
As human beings, we look for familiarity and want to be safe. We tend to avoid pain and risk as we seek to do things that make us feel comfortable. We know these past actions did not result in a positive outcome or relationship and we even know it doesn’t work, but it’s the only way we know. If you keep doing the same things over and over, the results will be the same. Now is the time to break the pattern … to do things DIFFERENTLY!
If you are ready to make 2022 a year of extraordinary love for yourself, take action now and begin on a path to positive change and a different you.
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To your happiness.
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